My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and a half. I spent part of the Christmas with him and his family. He did not want to come to my home because he said he would be overwhelmed by my large family. We are large and a bit loud too. He is from a small family. The problem is that we have not discussed new year’s eve plans. Is it okay for me to broach the subject . Should I ask him what would we be doing or would that be assuming too much too soon. I am nervous and scared because I do want us to be together on New Year’s Eve. I don’t know what to do and time is running out.
There’s only one way to find out. You ask him or ask him out. These days a girl don’t have to wait to be invited, she can take the initiative too. If he has made plans without you in it then it tells you he does not feel the same way about the relationship as you. Maybe he is not where you’re at in your head. Instead of worrying, get it out of your system, It is better to know where you stand. If he’s got plans of his own, you have enough time to make plans for yourself. Good luck.